

This is one of the points I filmed for 10 Biggest Lies in Porn / 10 Misconceptions about sex series ❣💓
Myth 7. Sex without orgasm is a failure.
I think enjoying yourself, having pleasurable feelings, exploring a kink, or having your body feel good, are all great potential benefits of having a sexy time with yourself or a partner. I don’t think a climax or orgasm is necessary to mean you “succeeded”. Perhaps it’s more about the journey than the destination.
Certainly not saying orgasms aren’t wonderful! They are! But I think there is much more to enjoy and savor as well, and not having an orgasm doesn’t discount all the other potential good stuff.