athoughtfulthot

Hi! Remember me? 😋 I know it's been a while! Thank you for a..

Added 2022-02-26 01:13:30 +0000 UTC

Hi! Remember me? 😋 I know it's been a while! Thank you for all the kind messages while I took a little break! I appreciate you all more than you know! The last few months have been a tough balance of non-stop work and self care (as seen here, post massage hair 😂) but I did miss being here! However, moving forward I definitely have to set more boundaries. As much as I looooove talking to all of you, I will not be quite as available as I once was. As the quite literal people pleaser I am, I allowed a little too much leniency when it came to conversation. While I love to chat about life, our days, our dreams - please remember I am here to provide a service. But, I'm not a therapist. Carrying the weight of so many others' lives got to be a little too heavy for me while trying to navigate my own. I can barely afford my own out of pocket therapy sessions 😅 so I can't afford to be giving away free therapy here, too. Please don't be offended by this or take this personally, but just remember when you unload your trauma on someone, they may not be in a place to hear it. That's not the loads we're here for, right? 🙃 (that was a terrible joke, if you're still reading I'm so sorry lmao) I also allowed a little too much of myself to be given to folks that had no intention of paying me. Of course, you don't have to tip to send me a message - but please don't send me unsolicited content and/or expect me to flirt or sext with you all day then tell me you don't pay for content or my time. I do care very deeply about many of you, but this can't be a one way street. If that's what I was looking for, id just drop my v e n m o in my t i n d e r bio. 😂 I hope you understand and will stick around. I'll continue to reward you with surprise treats every now and then, and share some fun new content on the feed. But if this continues to be a drain of my time and mental health without mutual benefit I'll have to take an extended or permanent leave. xoxo ❤️❤️