People can’t find love, because they look for it in other pe..
Added 2024-08-30 12:00:06 +0000 UTCPeople can’t find love, because they look for it in other people.
You can’t feel someone’ else’s emotions, fear, despair or Love.
What is possible & what you can experience is your own Love coming out of you.
If you want to find Love then you have to look for it, inside of yourself or more accurately you have to look for it coming out of yourself.
You will feel Love as you express Love to others.
There’s another reason why people often struggle to find Love, and it’s because most people are not looking for Love, they are looking for the gratification of being Loved.
They want to be treated well, they want to get a lot of what they like & not a lot of what they don’t like..
And when this occurs they experience a positive form of emotion that is often misunderstood by Love, when it’s really just the experience of gratification..
Love is not attractive, Love is not fun, Love is not romantic.
Love is a hard transformative crucible, associated with spiritual development.
“LOVE IS THE HUMILIATED-SELF EXULTANT”
Love is changing the bedpans, Love is staying with someone when they are down & out, “LOVE IS SACRIFICE WITHOUT THE HOPE OF REWARD”
How many people today when they say they are looking for Love; mean they are looking for someone who’s needs they can indefinitely put ahead of their own?
And that is why when they get less of what they want & more of what they don’t like, they don’t feel the same way & “fall out of Love”.
The truth is they never Love to begin with, because Love has nothing to do with getting what you want.
Nobody wants to forgive the person who has hurt them, nobody wants to stay by the person who has sexually cheated on you, the person who has lost respect, appreciation and reciprocity for you; but these things & more are often required of us by Love…
